Progressive lobbyist Keith Smith dies
by OK Indymedia Editorial Group - OK Indymedia Tuesday, Nov 21 2006, 1:43pm
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Huge loss for Oklahoma progressive community
"Keith Smith was one of the founding members of the Oklahoma Progressive
Alliance. Keith was indispensable to many organizations he represented in
Oklahoma City . He lobbied vigorously and passionately for the Prog.
Alliance, the Sierra Club, ACLU, Planned Parenthood, Gay Rights
organizations, and others. But he was also indispensable as a friend. This
is a tremendous shock because he was so young and vital. He was such a life
force that it will be difficult to think of him not being with us any more.
I will forward further information as I receive it."
-- Barbara Santee
Senator
Andrew Rice and former Senator Bernest Cain announce with deep regret that Keith
Smith passed away last night at Integris Hospital about 11:30 p.m. Final
arrangements have not been made, but the funeral will be in Alva and a memorial
service will be held here in Oklahoma City sometime in the next two weeks.
“Keith was tireless and determined in his efforts to speak for those who
otherwise would have no voice in the legislative process. Whether his issue of
the day was the rights of children, women, seniors, the protection of the
environment or adequate health care for the poor, or the disabled, Keith was a
leader in the fight. said Senator Rice.
“His energy was boundless and he felt that one of the most important duties of
every citizen was to become active in the political process, and he served as an
active volunteer in numerous political campaigns whether hosting fund raisers or
walking door to door”, said Senator Cain.
Keith’s most endearing attribute was that he never admitted defeat. He might
lose one battle, but he always bounced right back strategizing on how to win the
war.”
Keith was born on March 4, 1955 in Alva, Oklahoma and graduated from Oklahoma
State University. He was a member of the National Board of Stonewall Democrats,
co-chair of Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, a founder of OGLPC; former
ACLU Oklahoma and National board member, a Director of Progressive Alliance
Political Action Committee and former Board member of Cimarron Alliance. Keith
was the first openly GLBT delegate to the Democratic National Convention from
Oklahoma.
Keith was president of The Smith Group and his clients included ACLU, Planned
Parenthood, Sierra Club, Oklahoma Policy Consortium for People with Disabilities
and the National Association of Social Workers.
The rewards he received for his hard work in the public arena include the Angie
Debo Civil Libertarian Award form the ACLU of Oklahoma; the Margaret Sanger
Legacy Award from Planned Parenthood of Oklahoma; the Ron Schaffer Memorial
Award and Bill Rogers Award of Merit from the Gay and Lesbian political Caucus;
the Democracy in Action Award from the League of Women Voters and the Swan Award
from the Parents and Families of Lesbians and Gays.
He is survived by his mother and three brothers. Keith asked that in lieu of
flowers, donations be made to Planned Parenthood of Oklahoma.
From profile in Sierra Club publication:
"I'm an environmentalist, civil libertarian, pro-choice advocate and openly gay
man," says Keith Smith, who lobbies Oklahoma decision-makers for a variety of
clients, including the Sierra Club. "I'm a screaming liberal in a conservative
state, and that I have any victories at all is surprising."
Why does he keep at it? "They desperately need me - and I'm effective," he
says. "I became an activist in college, and I've been a volunteer or paid
lobbyist ever since." Smith's favorite fight is over concentrated animal feeding
operations, or CAFOs, and the public seems increasingly interested in booting
them from the state. "It's an issue that lets me build trust and alliances with
farmers and decision-makers who are conservative on other legislation," he says.
"It's good for Republicans to see family farmers hanging out with Keith Smith at
the capital."
Smith was born in Oklahoma and is part of a farming family, which helps open
the doors of lawmakers.
"I grew up in a rural part of the state, and that's where the big CAFO
conflicts are, so it helps that I know what life is like there. Probably the
scariest thing to an Oklahoman is an outside agitator. I'm a weird liberal, but
I'm their weird liberal, and that makes a difference."

I first remember Keith when we
were both on the board of directors of AIDS Support Program. He left the
board to become the executive director of ASP and I was president of the
board during his first year. A lot of things are memorable about ASP and
the work we did there, but one especially funny memory always comes to
mind. Keith and I had gone out to get some supplies for ASP. As we carried
boxes in from the car, Keith hurried through the door ahead of me. When I
mumbled something about how he could have held the door, Keith said, "You
need to butch up, Mary Catherine." I still smile whenever I think of him
saying that.
When I was in Washington working in the Clinton White House,
Keith called me and said, "You need to come home. I have an exciting new
candidate and I need you to come help in his campaign." He was talking
about Paul Barby and I did come home and worked with Paul and Keith, plus
some other great people as we tried to get Paul to Washington. One evening
Keith and I were talking and he said how much he had always wanted to run
for office, but that as a gay man who was openly involved in many causes
that were controversial to some, he was pretty sure that he could never get
elected in Oklahoma. So, he devoted himself to working for other candidates
and eventually to becoming active as a lobbyist at the Capitol.
Keith was one of the people who helped me make the decision
to run for office and was a strong supporter throughout my campaign. At one
time he told me that he would be "for you or against you, whichever one you
think will help you more." I'm proud to say he was always for me and I
don't care what anyone else thought about that.
I was shocked to hear of Keith's death. Even now, several
days later, it does not seem quite real. He will be deeply missed.
Godspeed, Keith. You made a difference in Oklahoma and beyond. Good job!
M.C. (MaryCatherine) Smothermon
Keith was not only a wonderful neighbor, he was a wonderful friend.
From the moment my husband and I moved in, Keith (and LeSabre) took us
under their wings (paws), and made sure we were always taken care of.
He would go to the grocery store, over shop, and then give us his extra
food. If we stopped by his house just to say hi, or to ask how I
to could have plants like his, he made sure to always
offer a square of cheese and a glass of wine. I never once heard Keith
talk of giving up. Each day was a new task, and he was making plans to
change the world, one republican at a time. The day I came home and saw
the infamous blue dress nailed to his tree, and knew this guy meant
business.
The last year and a half
of knowing Keith has been an honor. My husband and I will miss Keith,
but we are forever grateful that we were blessed to know him.
Goodbye Keith. And
thank you.
- Jennifer and Andrew
Bowman
Know that although in
the eternal scheme of things you are small, you are also unique and
irreplaceable, as are all your fellow humans everywhere in the world.
- Margaret Laurence
"All over Oklahoma,
many women shed tears of sorrow today at the loss of their best friend, Keith
Smith. I am one of those women." -----Joann Bell


As the days
pass and if we are able to stop our tears and perhaps begin to
realize Keith is really gone and we have to accept it - maybe many
of us will have funny stories to share about our lives with Keith.
Right now all I can think of is how unfair it is for him to be gone
so young, to be taken from us when we need him more than ever. I am
very thankful that I was able to spend some time with him on Sunday
- To hold his hand, to exchange "I love you's" and to try to make
him smile. Jane and I were there and I think we were both in
tremendous pain ourselves, watching him try to breath. He wanted to
talk and we'd tell him not to try to talk.
I shared the following story with Murphy, Darla and Keith's cousin
in the waiting room of the hospital on Monday afternoon:
A few years ago Keith and I went to an
ACLU Biennial conference in Safety Harbor, Florida. The beautiful
hotel was built on the sight where Ponce De Leon thought he'd
discovered the Fountain of Youth. The hotel had everything one could
need for entertainment including wonderful spas with the "magic
water." The ocean was beautiful, the weather perfect. We were
working during the day and were with wonderful people. Having put in
years as the ACLU National Board representative from Oklahoma, Keith
was very highly respected by ACLU staff and board members, from New
York to Los Angeles. The conference was packed with wonderful people
who loved to party after the conference ended for the
day. Everything to do at that wonderful conference .. BUT
... Keith and I discovered the local TV station carried five
episodes of "Designing Women" beginning at 9 p.m. nightly. So by 9
p.m., we'd be back in our shared hotel room - he in his bed with his
OSU boxers and me in my bed with my jammies ... with all our snacks
-- and we managed to watch 20 episodes of "Designing Women"
during that conference and laughed ourselves silly.
When it was fundraising time for the
ACLU, even after Keith had left our board, he'd ask me if I needed
help with any phone calls to raise money. Of course he knew we did
need help so he'd take a list of members to call. He'd take names of
people he knew (who didn't he know, that is the question!) and the
phone call would go like this:
Keith: "Hey _____, how are you? Good,
Good ........ I'm calling to raise money for the ACLU, we have a lot
of things going on and need help to support the litigation program
and other work and we are counting on you...........uh huh, yes, I
can send you an envelope and pledge card .... and I HOPE I get it
back soon or I'll have to show up at your door with 12 Drag Queens
singing to you and your neighbors might start looking at you
funny!" (lots of laughter then and we'd ALWAYS get the check.)
Reading Mary Catherine's "butch up"
comment made me smile for the first time since last Saturday night.
Thanks, M.C. - I think we all have to "butch up" right now.
Since the tragedy, how many of you have
picked up your phone to call Keith about something? I have, several
times. Then I remember.
Joann Bell
Executive Director
ACLU of Oklahoma Foundation
aclujb@mindspring.com
An email that Joann received:
Dear Joann,
I wanted to express my
condolences to you over Keith’s death. I know you were such
close friends and fellow defenders of women’s reproductive
freedom in Oklahoma. As you know, I worked with a lot of state
lobbyists on reproductive choice during six years at the
Reproductive Freedom Project, and Keith was always one of my
favorites, both for his toughness as a defender of women in a
truly hostile state, and for his wonderful sense of humor
through it all. I know his loss will be felt deeply in
Oklahoma.
Caitlin
Caitlin E.
Borgmann, Assistant Professor
CUNY School of
Law, Flushing New York
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"They say time changes all it pertains to ........"
One month ago today Keith left us.
We are left to cope without him. I miss our lunches
at Cousins and Abrahams, our phone calls, our laughs, our plots and plans to
wipe out bad legislation. I miss seeing his truck on Villa. I miss
watching him gear up to do battle as the leggie prepares to open. I miss the
emails from him.
How long do we wait to remove him from our email list;
to remove him from our cell phone directory? I can't bring myself to do
that just yet. It's much easier to pretend he's just gone off for a
Stonewall Democrat meeting.
One of the early November emails I have from Keith
reads: "I've been really busy but the elections are about over and things
will get back to normal."
Nothing will ever be back to normal.
There will never be another Keith.
I surely miss my friend.
Joann Bell
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