Progressive lobbyist Keith Smith dies
by OK Indymedia Editorial Group - OK Indymedia Tuesday, Nov 21 2006, 1:43pm
oklahoma (state news) / miscellaneous / feature

Huge loss for Oklahoma progressive community

"Keith Smith was one of the founding members of the Oklahoma Progressive Alliance. Keith was indispensable to many organizations he represented in Oklahoma City . He lobbied vigorously and passionately for the Prog. Alliance, the Sierra Club, ACLU, Planned Parenthood, Gay Rights organizations, and others. But he was also indispensable as a friend. This is a tremendous shock because he was so young and vital. He was such a life force that it will be difficult to think of him not being with us any more. I will forward further information as I receive it."
-- Barbara Santee

 

Keith SmithSenator Andrew Rice and former Senator Bernest Cain announce with deep regret that Keith Smith passed away last night at Integris Hospital about 11:30 p.m. Final arrangements have not been made, but the funeral will be in Alva and a memorial service will be held here in Oklahoma City sometime in the next two weeks.

“Keith was tireless and determined in his efforts to speak for those who otherwise would have no voice in the legislative process. Whether his issue of the day was the rights of children, women, seniors, the protection of the environment or adequate health care for the poor, or the disabled, Keith was a leader in the fight. said Senator Rice.

“His energy was boundless and he felt that one of the most important duties of every citizen was to become active in the political process, and he served as an active volunteer in numerous political campaigns whether hosting fund raisers or walking door to door”, said Senator Cain.

Keith’s most endearing attribute was that he never admitted defeat. He might lose one battle, but he always bounced right back strategizing on how to win the war.”

Keith was born on March 4, 1955 in Alva, Oklahoma and graduated from Oklahoma State University. He was a member of the National Board of Stonewall Democrats, co-chair of Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, a founder of OGLPC; former ACLU Oklahoma and National board member, a Director of Progressive Alliance Political Action Committee and former Board member of Cimarron Alliance. Keith was the first openly GLBT delegate to the Democratic National Convention from Oklahoma.

Keith was president of The Smith Group and his clients included ACLU, Planned Parenthood, Sierra Club, Oklahoma Policy Consortium for People with Disabilities and the National Association of Social Workers.

The rewards he received for his hard work in the public arena include the Angie Debo Civil Libertarian Award form the ACLU of Oklahoma; the Margaret Sanger Legacy Award from Planned Parenthood of Oklahoma; the Ron Schaffer Memorial Award and Bill Rogers Award of Merit from the Gay and Lesbian political Caucus; the Democracy in Action Award from the League of Women Voters and the Swan Award from the Parents and Families of Lesbians and Gays.

He is survived by his mother and three brothers. Keith asked that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to Planned Parenthood of Oklahoma.

 

From profile in Sierra Club publication:

"I'm an environmentalist, civil libertarian, pro-choice advocate and openly gay man," says Keith Smith, who lobbies Oklahoma decision-makers for a variety of clients, including the Sierra Club. "I'm a screaming liberal in a conservative state, and that I have any victories at all is surprising."

Why does he keep at it? "They desperately need me - and I'm effective," he says. "I became an activist in college, and I've been a volunteer or paid lobbyist ever since." Smith's favorite fight is over concentrated animal feeding operations, or CAFOs, and the public seems increasingly interested in booting them from the state. "It's an issue that lets me build trust and alliances with farmers and decision-makers who are conservative on other legislation," he says. "It's good for Republicans to see family farmers hanging out with Keith Smith at the capital."

Smith was born in Oklahoma and is part of a farming family, which helps open the doors of lawmakers.

"I grew up in a rural part of the state, and that's where the big CAFO conflicts are, so it helps that I know what life is like there. Probably the scariest thing to an Oklahoman is an outside agitator. I'm a weird liberal, but I'm their weird liberal, and that makes a difference."



I first remember Keith when we were both on the board of directors of AIDS Support Program.  He left the board to become the executive director of ASP and I was president of the board during his first year.  A lot of things are memorable about ASP and the work we did there, but one especially funny memory always comes to mind.  Keith and I had gone out to get some supplies for ASP.  As we carried boxes in from the car, Keith hurried through the door ahead of me.  When I mumbled something about how he could have held the door, Keith said, "You need to butch up, Mary Catherine."  I still smile whenever I think of him saying that.
 
When I was in Washington working in the Clinton White House, Keith called me and said, "You need to come home.  I have an exciting new candidate and I need you to come help in his campaign."  He was talking about Paul Barby and I did come home and worked with Paul and Keith, plus some other great people as we tried to get Paul to Washington.  One evening Keith and I were talking and he said how much he had always wanted to run for office, but that as a gay man who was openly involved in many causes that were controversial to some, he was pretty sure that he could never get elected in Oklahoma.  So, he devoted himself to working for other candidates and eventually to becoming active as a lobbyist at the Capitol.
 
Keith was one of the people who helped me make the decision to run for office and was a strong supporter throughout my campaign.  At one time he told me that he would be "for you or against you, whichever one you think will help you more."  I'm proud to say he was always for me and I don't care what anyone else thought about that.
 
I was shocked to hear of Keith's death.  Even now, several days later, it does not seem quite real.  He will be deeply missed.  Godspeed, Keith.  You made a difference in Oklahoma and beyond.  Good job! 
 
M.C. (MaryCatherine) Smothermon 
Keith was not only a wonderful neighbor, he was a wonderful friend.  From the moment my husband and I moved in, Keith (and LeSabre) took us under their wings (paws), and made sure we were always taken care of.  He would go to the grocery store, over shop, and then give us his extra food.  If we stopped by his house just to say hi, or to ask how I to could have plants like his, he made sure to always offer a square of cheese and a glass of wine.  I never once heard Keith talk of giving up.  Each day was a new task, and he was making plans to change the world, one republican at a time.  The day I came home and saw the infamous blue dress nailed to his tree, and knew this guy meant business. 
 
The last year and a half of knowing Keith has been an honor.  My husband and I will miss Keith, but we are forever grateful that we were blessed to know him.  
 
Goodbye Keith.  And thank you.
 
- Jennifer and Andrew Bowman
 
Know that although in the eternal scheme of things you are small, you are also unique and irreplaceable, as are all your fellow humans everywhere in the world.
       - Margaret Laurence

"All over Oklahoma, many women shed tears of sorrow today at the loss of their best friend, Keith Smith. I am one of those women." -----Joann Bell 

    

As the days pass and if we are able to stop our tears and perhaps begin to realize Keith is really gone and we have to accept it - maybe many of us will have funny stories to share about our lives with Keith. Right now all I can think of is how unfair it is for him to be gone so young, to be taken from us when we need him more than ever. I am very thankful that I was able to spend some time with him on Sunday  - To hold his hand, to exchange "I love you's" and to try to make him smile. Jane and I were there and I think we were both in tremendous pain ourselves, watching him try to breath. He wanted to talk and we'd tell him not to try to talk.


I shared the following story with Murphy, Darla and Keith's cousin in the waiting room of the hospital on Monday afternoon:

A few years ago Keith and I went to an ACLU Biennial conference in Safety Harbor, Florida. The beautiful hotel was built on the sight where Ponce De Leon thought he'd discovered the Fountain of Youth. The hotel had everything one could need for entertainment including wonderful spas with the "magic water."  The ocean was beautiful, the weather perfect. We were working during the day and were with wonderful people. Having put in years as the ACLU National Board representative from Oklahoma, Keith was very highly respected by ACLU staff and board members, from New York to Los Angeles. The conference was packed with wonderful people who loved to party after the conference ended for the day. Everything to do at that wonderful conference .. BUT ... Keith and I discovered the local TV station carried five episodes of "Designing Women" beginning at 9 p.m. nightly. So by 9 p.m., we'd be back in our shared hotel room - he in his bed with his OSU boxers and me in my bed with my jammies ... with all our snacks  -- and we managed to watch 20 episodes of "Designing Women" during that conference and laughed ourselves silly.
 
When it was fundraising time for the ACLU, even after Keith had left our board, he'd ask me if I needed help with any phone calls to raise money. Of course he knew we did need help so he'd take a list of members to call. He'd take names of people he knew (who didn't he know, that is the question!)  and the phone call would go like this:
 
Keith: "Hey _____, how are you? Good, Good ........ I'm calling to raise money for the ACLU, we have a lot of things going on and need help to support the litigation program and other work and we are counting on you...........uh huh, yes, I can send you an envelope and pledge card .... and I HOPE I get it back soon or I'll have to show up at your door with 12 Drag Queens singing to you and your neighbors might start looking at you funny!"  (lots of laughter then and we'd ALWAYS get the check.)
 
Reading Mary Catherine's "butch up" comment made me smile for the first time since last Saturday night. Thanks, M.C. - I think we all have to "butch up" right now. 
 
Since the tragedy, how many of you have picked up your phone to call Keith about something? I have, several times. Then I remember.
 
Joann Bell
Executive Director
ACLU of Oklahoma Foundation
aclujb@mindspring.com  

An email that Joann received:

Dear Joann,

I wanted to express my condolences to you over Keith’s death.  I know you were such close friends and fellow defenders of women’s reproductive freedom in Oklahoma.  As you know, I worked with a lot of state lobbyists on reproductive choice during six years at the Reproductive Freedom Project, and Keith was always one of my favorites, both for his toughness as a defender of women in a truly hostile state, and for his wonderful sense of humor through it all.  I know his loss will be felt deeply in Oklahoma.

Caitlin

Caitlin E. Borgmann, Assistant Professor

CUNY School of Law, Flushing New York

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"They say time changes all it pertains to ........"
 
One month ago today Keith left us.
 
We are left to cope without him.  I miss our lunches at Cousins and Abrahams, our phone calls, our laughs, our plots and plans to wipe out bad legislation.  I miss seeing his truck on Villa.  I miss watching him gear up to do battle as the leggie prepares to open. I miss the emails from him.
 
How long do we wait to remove him from our email list; to remove him from our cell phone directory?  I can't bring myself to do that just yet. It's much easier to pretend he's just gone off for a Stonewall Democrat meeting.
 
One of the early November emails I have from Keith reads:  "I've been really busy but the elections are about over and things will get back to normal."
 
Nothing will ever be back to normal.
There will never be another Keith.
I surely miss my friend.
 
Joann Bell

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